Hi you guys. Are you wondering why I'm blogging today? Because yesterday I told you all that I won't be able to blog since I have tuition and stuffs. BUT, my tuition has been cancelled!!! *throws confetti* and I am spending my time at home, sitting by the patio and drinking smooties.
Kidding!!
I probably looked like this the whole day
Maybe a lot less glamorous.....
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Okay, so I have a rant today; I CANNOT STAND PEOPLE WHO TAKE EVERYTHING SERIOUSLY
Confused? I'll give an example. Don't you just hate it when you crack a joke while texting someone and it's suppose to be funny to lighten the mood but the other person will just give a logical response like wtf man just go with the flow.
Like even if you don't think it's funny, you can just be like 'hahaha lmfao' or come up with a funnier joke. I mean. you do not need to be so serious. Loosen up, dude! :)
I also cannot stand it when people get too sensitive over a joke. It's okay to get upset when someone constantly makes fun of you online or during a text or tackles the more sensitive issues (like religion, physical appearance, family, etc.) then that is considered as cyber-bullying. But the more lighter jokes? You shouldn't get upset over that. If the joke told offends you a little, you could typed in a 'haha' to show that it doesn't really amuse you. And if the person gets more deeper into the joke, you could don't reply to give a little hint that he/she should stop, not cry and move to Mars and stop talking to the person for 176382846 days.
It was just a joke do not get so upset. Do not get so sentimental because you never know that sometimes when guys teases you, they might just actually like you okay :-) So, don't take it the wrong way! You might lose an opportunity. Also, teasing improves relationships whether it's bestfriends or crushes or just pure friends. Maybe next time if someone teases/ jokes around with you, you could tease them back and maybe, just maybe, an inside joke will be made out of it.
Like for example, I have this friend, Dominic and he would make fun of my not-so-white skin (because I'm pure malay), calling me chocolate and I would complain that he wasn't the whitest person on Earth because he is tanned. Like one day, he said (taken from a whatsapp convo)
" Oh hell no you didn't chocolate :P"
" YOU THINK YOU SO VANILLA MEH"
GET WHAT I MEAN? These little things can lead up to an inside joke. And that wasn't the first time he called me chocolate no no no. He called me that before and seeing that it did not bother me as much, he used it against me in the future. And then other people started joining in and Roshini and I were like confused one day. Because my skin isn't the colour of chocolate, so we spent a whole day trying to figure out the right shade for my skin. HAHAH see how ridiculous it can get? And our friend, Jia Wei named himself strawberry because he's white but has a little redness on his face and also because he wanted to joined in the food community.
Btw, we stil have not found the correct shade for my skin. We were weighing between peanut butter and caramel. But i feel both colours are too creamy in colour for my skin so we gave up hehe.
So yeah, learn to take risks. Because sometimes, good things come out of it (eg. good memories and new friendships made). But you have to be careful with the things you tease people with. You don't want to be known as the person who isn't sensitive lol. So, yeah just go have fun okay! Life is too short to regret. :-D
So that's all I wanted to say. This post took me two hours to finish since I was so distracted with twitter and whatsapp!!I hope you don't mind my rants as I can promise you more rants in future and I can't help it, guys.
But I hope you like this post, guys. If you do like reading my blog but maybe there are certain things that I need to improve on, you can tell me on my Twitter or you can just leave me an email (my email is under the Profile page). Thanks for reading again!
I meow you.
But I hope you like this post, guys. If you do like reading my blog but maybe there are certain things that I need to improve on, you can tell me on my Twitter or you can just leave me an email (my email is under the Profile page). Thanks for reading again!
I meow you.
Love,
Shirin♥
